The Nerve to Live Apart Together Ft. Eunice Martel

Did you know that 3.89 million Americans, or 2.95% of married couples, live apart?

Living apart together (LAT) is when a couple in a partnership chooses to live separately. This can be for various reasons, and in this episode of You’ve Got Nerve, Life Coach Eunice Martel joins me to dive deep into this topic and her personal story. 

Eunice is a WHOLE LIFE coach who loves talking to her clients about money mindset, rest, and pleasure. She believes there is more to life than overworking and paying bills. And she practices what she preaches – when her husband suggested biking across Canada from the west to the east coast, she enthusiastically agreed. One of the life lessons she came away with from this 4-month adventure was that she craved her own living space. 

Eunice and I talk about getting up the “nerve” to establish the “Living Apart Together” stage of her marriage. 

Get ready for a very open, honest, and compelling conversation ahead!

In this episode, we discuss:

  • Making the decision to live apart together. 
  • Creating a prototype for the lifestyle and what that looks like. 
  • How to keep boundaries and open communication in a LAT-ship.
  • Communicating this lifestyle choice to others. 
  • How to figure out if there will be a longer-term permanence to a LAT-ship.

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